Loving…..

I have been trying to start this blog so many times. I've created several posts and deleted them. What I have realized is that I am trying to write about loving others and I  truly should be loving myself before I can love anyone else. Yes it is cliche! It sounds so dumb…not that loving myself is dumb but having to say it. As I process that statement…..it  makes this issue even more obvious….I'm so hard on myself, challenging myself is ok but being so unforgiving is just not love. 

So this blog will not be about what I'm doing for other people….it will be selfish or self full as Iyanla Vanzant puts it……

 This blog is completely devoted to loving myself so that I bloom. Then will I be able to truly sow…..

My place of peace….

Below is a clip from Oprah' slide class with Iyanla Vanzant.